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Amy Irving and Steven Spielberg: From Hollywood Divorce to Amicable Double Dates
Despite what was once one of Hollywood’s most costly divorce settlements, the relationship between actress Amy Irving and legendary filmmaker Steven Spielberg has remained surprisingly positive. Irving, 71, and her current husband Kenneth Bowser Jr., have cultivated an unusual friendship with Spielberg, 78, and his wife Kate Capshaw, often enjoying double dates together.
An Unconventional Post-Divorce Friendship
In a recent interview on THR’s It Happened in Hollywood podcast, Irving revealed the amicable nature of her relationship with her ex-husband. “We’ve always communicated and been close,” Irving stated. “He and Kate and my husband and I, we try to double-date now and then,” she added, highlighting the unique bond they share decades after their high-profile split and substantial divorce settlement.
From Audition to Separation: The Early Years
Irving and Spielberg’s history began in 1976 when she auditioned for his film Close Encounters of the Third Kind. Although deemed too young for the role, a romantic relationship blossomed, and Irving moved in with Spielberg. He initially promised her the role of Marion Ravenwood in Indiana Jones: Raiders of the Lost Ark. However, their separation in 1979 led to Karen Allen ultimately securing the coveted part.
Rekindling and Family
The former couple reconnected in 1984 in India. Irving was filming the miniseries The Far Pavilions, while Spielberg was location scouting for Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom. Irving recounted their reunion: “I remember I was on a palanquin… and as I got off… there was Steven, and it just kind of sparked up again.” This rekindled romance led to the birth of their son, Max, now 39 and co-founder of a video game company.
The $100 Million Settlement and Co-Parenting
Following their divorce, Irving received a reported $100 million settlement after a judge invalidated their prenuptial agreement. This substantial sum, however, had minimal impact on Spielberg’s vast fortune, estimated at $5.3 billion as of 2025. Irving emphasized their commitment to co-parenting, living near Spielberg to facilitate shared custody of Max.
Reflections on Marriage and Career
Irving has openly discussed the pressures of being married to Spielberg. “I felt like a politician’s wife,” she admitted in a 1994 interview, noting the expectations that felt inauthentic to her. She also reflected on the challenges of being both “Steven Spielberg’s wife” and “the ex-Mrs. Steven Spielberg.” Despite this, their current friendship remains strong, with Irving suggesting that collaborating on a film project might even strain their valuable bond.
Life Beyond Spielberg: Family and New Album
Beyond her relationship with Spielberg, Irving has built a full life. She has another son, Gabriel Davis Barreto, from her marriage to Bruno Barreto. Irving has been married to Kenneth Bowser Jr. for 17 years. Spielberg and Capshaw, married for 33 years, have a large blended family. Irving is also embarking on a new musical venture, set to release her second studio album, Always Will Be, on April 25, featuring reimagined Willie Nelson songs.
Musical Ventures and Performance
Irving’s connection with Willie Nelson extends beyond her upcoming album. She famously dated the country music icon after they starred together in the 1980 film Honeysuckle Rose. Fans can anticipate seeing Irving perform live at City Winery New York City on May 4.
Acting Career Highlights
While focusing on music, Irving’s acting career spans decades. Her most recent role was in the 2021 film A Mouthful of Air. She is celebrated for iconic roles in films like Carrie (1976), Yentl (1983), and Traffic (2000). She also provided the singing voice for Jessica Rabbit in Who Framed Roger Rabbit (1988), solidifying her diverse talents in Hollywood.