Kevin Costner Finds Support in First Wife Cindy Silva Amidst Divorce
Following his recent divorce from Christine Baumgartner, actor Kevin Costner, 70, is reportedly finding solace in his enduring friendship with his former wife, Cindy Silva.
Enduring Friendship After Divorce
An insider revealed that Silva has been a source of guidance for Costner during his emotional recovery. “Cindy is a wise woman and has been offering support to Kevin in recent months,” the source stated.
The source further added, “He truly values the positive and supportive friendship that has emerged from their previous separation. She is a real ally and provides excellent counsel. He relies on her frequently.”
Sources indicate that their shared children – Lily, Joe, and Annie – further strengthen their bond and platonic relationship.
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The insider noted, “They often gather for their children’s birthdays, enjoying quality time together. Their interactions are consistently amicable and friendly.”
Costner has previously expressed enduring affection for Silva, describing her as “a real lady.”
Early Relationship and Marriage to Cindy Silva
Costner and Silva’s relationship began as students at California State University – Fullerton in 1975. They married in 1978, but Silva filed for divorce in November 1994, concluding their 16-year marriage.
Kevin Costner is reportedly leaning on his first wife, Cindy Silva, for support after his recent divorce from Christine Baumgartner. (Pictured in 1991)
A source indicates Cindy Silva has been guiding Kevin Costner during his recent heartbreak. (Pictured in the 1990s)
Divorce and Settlement with Silva
Silva, now 68, reportedly received approximately $80 million in the 1994 divorce settlement.
Silva’s Life After Costner
Silva, once a fixture alongside Costner on red carpets and even featured in his acclaimed film “Dances With Wolves,” now maintains a more private life in Santa Barbara, California, with her husband of over two decades, business executive Larry Ameen.
Ameen’s professional background includes executive roles in the denim industry for brands like Jordache Jeans and Pepe Jeans. He later became CEO of Dogwood Investments Inc.
She is also known as Cindy Antonucci-Ameen.
Costner’s Marital History and Reflections
Following his separation from Baumgartner, Costner has been romantically linked to Jewel, Sharon Stone, and Jennifer Lopez, although no concrete evidence of these relationships has emerged.
Less than two years after his divorce from Silva, Costner fathered a son, Liam, with Bridget Rooney, heiress to the Pittsburgh Steelers and aunt to actresses Rooney and Kate Mara.
This relationship reportedly resulted in a $7 million settlement for the actor.
Costner acknowledged his responsibility in the dissolution of his marriage to Silva in an interview, though he did not elaborate on specifics.
He stated, “A series of events happened concurrently. I recognize that my marital failure caused pain. The demise of the marriage was my responsibility.” Around the same time, Costner was also linked to Playboy model Angie Everheart and the daughter of casino magnate Steve Wynn.
Cindy Silva and Kevin Costner married in 1978 and divorced in 1994. (Pictured in 1989)
Cindy Silva is described by a source as ‘an ally’ to Kevin Costner. (Pictured in 1991)
Cindy Silva now lives a private life in Santa Barbara, California, with her husband Larry Ameen.
A recent image of Cindy Silva shared by her daughter Annie Costner.
The “Dances With Wolves” star further commented, “It was a difficult period for Cindy and our children. It was solely a painful experience. The end of my marriage was profoundly challenging for me.”
Costner reiterated his admiration for his former wife, stating, “This is on record: Throughout all the difficulties, Cindy has been, and remains, the true lady I always believed her to be. I still cherish love for Cindy.”
The report indicates that shortly after his split with Silva, Costner began filming the romantic comedy “Tin Cup.” It was on this film set that he encountered his second wife, Baumgartner, who was 21 years old at the time.
During Costner’s early career struggles, Silva was a pillar of support, taking on various jobs, including portraying Snow White at Disneyland.
Kevin Costner with children Annie Costner, Hayes Logan Costner, Cayden Wyatt Costner, Grace Avery Costner at a premiere in June 2024.
Shortly after his divorce from Cindy Silva, Kevin Costner had a son, Liam, with Bridget Rooney.
In a joint statement released in 1994, Costner and Silva announced, “We have amicably settled all matters concerning our children and finances, reaching a complete marital agreement.” They further requested, “We kindly ask for privacy as we navigate this painful chapter in our lives.”
Relationship with Christine Baumgartner and Separation
In a 2012 interview with Parade Magazine, Costner shared his thoughts on the key to a successful marriage.
The “Untouchables” star suggested, “Perhaps the secret lies in the ability to apologize. It may sound simple, but if you can express love, you should also be prepared to say you’re sorry, even when you believe you’re justified.”
Costner and Baumgartner began dating in 1998, having first met around 1996 during the filming of “Tin Cup.” Costner admitted he was not initially ready for a new relationship at that first encounter.
They eventually married in 2004 in Aspen, Colorado.
Their lengthy courtship was partly due to Costner’s uncertainty about having more children. This hesitation even led to a temporary separation before their engagement. “Fear prevented me from marrying Christine,” he confessed. “[She] desired a child, but I worried about being a capable father.”
He recounted, “I realized, am I going to lose a wonderful woman who is committed to me for life, simply because I’m afraid to say yes to a child? That realization changed everything. Sometimes, facing your biggest fear can be life-saving.”
Christine Baumgartner and Kevin Costner separated last year. (Pictured in 2022)
As recently as 2020, Costner spoke positively about how the COVID-19 pandemic had strengthened their relationship. He told People magazine, “Our partnership has deepened in understanding our roles and how we support our family.”
However, in 2022, Radar Online reported that Baumgartner had issued an ultimatum, demanding Costner leave his hit series “Yellowstone” due to his frequent absences from home.
“The show is a massive success, and producers want it to continue indefinitely!” a source told the website. “[Baumgartner] is seeking a firm commitment that this season will be his last—or he might have to leave!”