RHONJ'S Melissa Gorga: Joe and I 'Fight So Hard' for Our Marriage

Making it function. Melissa Gorga as well asJoe Gorga have 16 years of marital relationship under their belts– however it hasn’t constantly been very easy.

The Real Housewives of New Jersey celebrity, 41, opened concerning her partnership as well as domesticity in advance of the period 11 best of the Bravo collection, which will certainly reveal a side of the pair followers have not seen prior to. While they have actually been with each other for a very long time, both have actually encountered lots of obstacles.

“Whoever said marriage is easy is a liar,” Melissa informs Us Weekly solely. “Joe and I have a beautiful thing because we both always wanted the same things in life: a successful, healthy family and [we make] sure everyone around us is happy. Our kids are our life, and they are the reason we work so hard, try so hard and fight so hard for our marriage.”

RHONJ'S Melissa Gorga: Joe and I 'Fight So Hard' for Our Marriage
Joe Gorga as well as Melissa Gorga. Gregory Pace/Shutterstock

Melissa wed Teresa Giudice‘s brother, 41, in 2004, and they share children Antonia, 15, Gino, 13, and Joey, 10. Though they’ ve invested 11 years in the limelight many thanks to the Housewives franchise business, the pair constantly attempt to bear in mind their origins.

“I feel like we’re doing a pretty good job for being in the public eye for this long!” Melissa states. “We both try to keep our two feet on the ground and remember what is real and what is not.”

This period, truth TELEVISION followers will certainly obtain an extra individual glance at the Gorga home– also the messiest components. Melissa formerly informed Us solely that she as well as Joe had actually been “struggling” to remain on the exact same web page throughout the coronavirus pandemic.

“He likes things to stay the same. I’ve been with him since I was 24 years old,” the New Jersey indigenous exposed previously this month. “So I’ve changed and I feel like this is a scary part of marriage. Either you’re going to grow together or you’re going to grow apart. And I think we’re fighting really hard to grow together. … We were struggling and we show it.”

Despite their ups as well as downs, the pair are dedicated to placing their finest foot ahead as well as establishing an instance for their children to constantly strive wherefore they desire.

“The biggest challenge with the kids that Joe and I always talk about is the fact that we are able to give them everything, but we are always trying to figure out a way to show them how hard we work,” Melissa states. “We want them to know they need to work hard as well if they want to maintain the lifestyle they are accustomed to.”

A current trailer for the upcoming period of RHONJ recommends that greater than simply Melissa as well as Joe’s partnership will certainly be placed under a microscopic lense. “Everyone’s marriage can look absolutely perfect on the outside,” costar Margaret Josephs tips in the intro, to which Melissa reacts, “But guess what? Things aren’t always what they seem.”

The Real Housewives of New Jersey go back to Bravo Wednesday, February 17, at 9 p.m. ET.

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