Before you can even become an alpha male, you need to start afresh. When I say starting afresh, it means getting over your past failed relationships. The reason why many people fear getting their dating life handled is because they have a failed relationship and they lose faith in getting into another relationship. I am not a relationship expert and most of my tips are not meant for staying in a long relationship. However, since I was a beta male not too long ago, I have experienced many not so pleasant relationships. I can understand many of your pain and agony but I still pick myself up. Today’s article, you may have guessed it, is on getting her OUT of your HEAD forever! If you still don’t know what I mean, it means getting over your past relationship. Let’s get her out of your mind right away…
The best way to solve this problem is to prevent it in the first place. Easiest way to prevent it is to build your life around principles instead of relationship. Many people make the same mistake of centering their life on relationships. They do this and that for the relationship. Basically, they invest mostly all their resources on the relationship. At the end of the day when the relationship fails, they feel like the world has come to an end. So, what type of things should you build your life on. I personally think that you should build your life around principles in life. Good principles like integrity, responsibility, diligence, never say die etc. I am not saying that you don’t look after your relationship but what I am saying here is not to build your life on relationships. It is too dangerous.
If your relationship has really ended, accept it and end any kind of hope that both of you will get back together. I know it may sounds hard but you need to accept the fact that both of you are not going to get back together. Once you truthfully accept it, you will start to heal from the relationship.
One of the easiest way to get over your relationship matters is to get a busy and exciting life. Getting a good, enjoyable and exciting life brings you many wonderful benefits. First, you will not need to depend on her or relationship to satisfy your personal life. Second, having a wonderful personal life acts like a magnet for friends and girlfriends. Then, take a look at your schedule and fill up your week with different enjoyable activities. Chill out with your friends at a spa or hit out at a gym. Talk to your friends about your past relationships and laugh about it. Say to yourself that I will live strongly no matter what happens in my life.
The next tip to get over her is to get yourself a better girlfriend. Go out and get yourself a girlfriend that is more worthy of your time and energy. She is the one that is losing out breaking up with you. So, just pick yourself up and START living all over again!