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Beverly Hills, CA – Reality TV personality Teddi Mellencamp, currently navigating a stage four cancer diagnosis, extended birthday greetings to her estranged husband, Edwin Arroyave, on Instagram Saturday, marking his 48th year. The social media tribute arrives amidst their pending divorce, which is temporarily paused as Mellencamp undergoes cancer treatment.
Social Media Birthday Tribute
Mellencamp, known for her role on “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills,” shared a nostalgic family photograph on the social media platform. The image featured their children – Slate, 12; Cruz, 10; Dove, five; and Arroyave’s daughter Isabella, 16. Alongside the picture, she included a brief but heartfelt message.
A Message of Shared Pride
In her post, Mellencamp wrote, “Happy birthday Edwin! No matter where life takes us, I know we’re both proud of what we’ve created for the kiddos.” This message underscores their commitment to co-parenting despite their separation and personal challenges.
Divorce on Hold Amid Health Crisis
Despite the affectionate birthday message, Mellencamp, 43, has publicly confirmed that their decision to divorce remains, even as she confronts her serious health issues. She stated in an interview that while their marital separation is still planned, her current health battle has taken precedence.
Balancing Treatment and Co-Parenting
Mellencamp is currently undergoing immunotherapy as part of her cancer treatment. She is also managing co-parenting responsibilities with Arroyave during this challenging time.
Emotional Toll of Health Battle
In a candid discussion, Mellencamp previously recounted the emotional strain of her diagnosis. She described to Arroyave the “debilitating pain” she experiences when contemplating the impact on her young children.
“That is extremely frightening. My kids are young,” she emphasized during an interview, highlighting the profound emotional impact of her health situation on her family life.
Hospitalization and Family Support
Mellencamp emotionally recalled a moment during her hospitalization following emergency brain surgery to remove tumors. Confused and distressed, she expressed concern about missing her daughter Dove’s birthday party.
“I feel like today might be Dove’s birthday,” she recounted saying to Arroyave. His response, “It is. It’s her party today that you planned,” brought the reality of the situation into sharp focus.
Tearfully, she asked if she could be discharged briefly for the celebration. Arroyave offered reassurance, responding, “We’ll throw another one,” displaying his supportive approach during her health ordeal.
Focus on Recovery and Family Wellbeing
Having recently completed radiation therapy, Mellencamp’s treatment now centers on immunotherapy.
Arroyave’s Perspective on Support
Arroyave recently spoke on “The Eds” podcast with co-host Eddie Judge, explaining his instinct to support Mellencamp despite their impending divorce. He emphasized his priority to ensure Mellencamp felt “confident” upon learning of her diagnosis.
The father of four also prioritized establishing a “good place” in their relationship and ensuring their children’s emotional security during this period of family transition and health concerns.
“No matter what, I will always love Teddi, and she’s been a big part of my life. And I like taking care of people, it’s just what I do. So it wasn’t even like, a question,” Arroyave stated, emphasizing his unwavering support for Mellencamp during her cancer battle.
Divorce Proceedings Secondary to Health
Addressing their paused divorce, Arroyave conveyed that their immediate focus is Mellencamp’s health and recovery.
“The first thing is just making sure that we take care of this first,” he affirmed. “And all that other stuff—we’ll see what happens with time. But for right now, it’s just more of like, how do we take care of you? And how can we get you back to normal as fast as [possible]? That other stuff will figure itself out.”