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Navigating Pregnancy and Family Bonds
The following month, a trip to Illinois facilitated introductions to Jeff’s family. During this period, we exchanged initial declarations of love. Subsequently, towards the end of the month, news arrived of a confirmed pregnancy with her brother’s child. This time, the pregnancy progressed successfully.
A Focus on a Healthy Pregnancy
The subsequent nine months became intensely focused on ensuring a healthy baby. While part-time work and graduate studies continued, the pregnancy remained the paramount priority. The potential for profound guilt loomed if the baby’s health was compromised.
Lifestyle Adjustments During Pregnancy
Medication dosages were reduced, and the consumption of sliced turkey was discontinued. A modified yoga routine was adopted. Efforts were made to curb late-night ice cream cravings, often initiated by Jeff himself. A specific desire for vegan breakfast sandwiches, unavailable for delivery despite not being vegan, arose, prompting Jeff to dutifully procure them.
Unexpected Labor Onset
Labor unexpectedly commenced in the waiting area of Jeff’s upscale Beverly Hills office suite. The location served as a meeting point before a planned lunch. Given the office’s proximity to the hospital, he accompanied her. Around the first administration of fentanyl, as she began to doze, Jeff briefly returned home – an hour away – for lunch, to walk the dog, and retrieve a phone charger. He returned to the hospital, despite the distance, and remained until her brother and his husband arrived after a six-hour drive.
Postpartum and NICU Stay
A baby boy was born, exhibiting some sensitivity necessitating a brief stay in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). The matter was not critical; the mother’s anxiety medication during pregnancy may have contributed to the infant’s initial feeding hesitancy. However, even acknowledging it as routine procedure, postpartum guilt about potentially delivering an unhealthy baby surfaced until his discharge. The NICU stay was less than 48 hours, even allowing him to participate in a NICU Halloween celebration. Now, eighteen months later, he thrives as a happy, healthy, and rapidly developing boy.
Family Dynamics Post-Birth
Shortly after birth, during a visit to their Berkeley home when the child was a few months old, emotions surfaced while observing her brother-in-law bathing the baby. The scene was ordinary; the brother-in-law engaged in playful songs, splashing, and various silly voices to elicit smiles. His past as an actor appeared to find its true calling.